You are never obliged to do something just because a fan pays or pushes.
Decide your limits
Write a private no-list of content and interactions you won't do. Knowing your limits in advance makes it easy to say no in the moment.
Price customs so requests are worth your time.
Hold the line
Decline politely and consistently; block fans who harass or pressure you. A good agency respects and enforces your boundaries in chat.
Never let payment override your comfort or safety.
FAQ
How do I set boundaries with OnlyFans fans?
Decide a clear no-list in advance, decline pushy requests politely and consistently, and block anyone who harasses you.
Do I have to do what a fan pays for?
No. Payment never overrides your boundaries or safety. Refund or decline requests outside your limits.
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